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We wait months to see one, then three of them show-up within a few days of each other. The Dark World' Premiere. All we need now is wee Cici for a full-house We've been long-time slaggerers of The Late Late Show but this year, thus far, we've been made eat extra helpings of humble pie. You know folks, it's almost impossible to make our fav Irish actress Amy Huberman any more cute.

Yesterday The Hubes went into cute overdrive by sheltering from the elements at Today FM under an umbrella and a slightly oversized woolly hat with a pink bauble on top. Seems like stylist to the stars Angela Scanlon is on a mission folks.

She's hell-bent on representing fellow red-heads and just like Justin Timberlake did with sexy, bringing ginger back. It wasn't just the show that signalled the end of the Celtic Tiger folks, many say it was the actually cause of the crash. Ireland's first ever surreality TV show Fade Street changed Irish televisual landscape forever and brought us a fresh-faced model called Vogue who went on to become the world-wide phenomenon Brogue One thing Dublin isn't short of is bachelors folks.

The ladies are certainly in a minority out there in club land since the Celtic Tiger got the black lung. But who is the best man we hear you say? Well, those fashionable folk over at Stellar Magazine have the answer We're starting to see a pattern folks. Our very own Sinead O'Connor spouts out something controversial publicly and true-to-form she's on the Late Late Show the following Friday. Ironically, Shinners then kinda refuses to talk about the thing she's getting all the publicity about, and none of us dare not touch the remote as the TV runs right-up the arse of the car in front.

Coppers just got some up-market competition folks. We were there for the launch last Friday night We think it may be over for Twitter folks. And right before their IPO too. You see, Twitterers got their own Irish awards ceremony last night, instantly making the social network uncool. Remember when South William Street was cool? Then it got its own awards show.

Sexy supermodel Victoria Silvstedt was in Brown Thomas a few days back launching her 'Very Victoria' lingerie collection. She wasn't modelling the underwear herself. A pretty fab line-up on last weekend's Late Late Show folks, and even a break from the old creaking format. All that Christy Moore hype over Arthur's Day this week coz of all the pints of Arthur-Scargill getting consumed and vommed back-up mainly in the Camden Street area of the city.

Happily, this year seemed to be a lot less To-Arthur-y and more about the live choons banging out of the boozers It was all to put their Autumn Winter clothes on the catwalk with some of our top models on the runway and some of our top fashion types in the front row What a perfect day in our Nation's capital it was yesterday. The skies were blue, the people were blue, and the Sam Maguire ultimately turned blue And a darker shade of blue. Big night out at Citywest last weekend folks, everyone who is anyone was there to honour the worthy recipients of the 39th Rehab Person of The Year Awards Lots of lovely ladies in fancy dresses also keeping our super snappers super busy The evenings are getting shorter, the weather's getting cooler and damper, the leaves are starting wilt and fall.

But do not fret folks. Those crazy cats over at Miss Bikini Ireland will warm-up your Autumn with lots of lovely scantily clad ladies. Sure, where would you get it Our favourite female author of the moment, Cecelia Ahern, was out and about on the town at the weekend folks. We hear she was having a few early birthday drinks before turning 32 later this month. We snapped the super talented blonde as she hit No. With a watering-can in his hand and a leather jacket on his back, Paddy sure got the girls all excited at Everleigh Garden For many a year we lamented the lack of balance between the large number of famous international Irish males we had compared to the number of famous international females.

Sisters are doing it for themselves folks If you stuck your thumb out for a bus yesterday folks and suddenly found yourself surrounded by leggy Amazonians pouting and wotnot, don't fret. It's not an invasion of incredibly hot women. Family, friends, politicians, and ShowBiz luminaries attended Sacred Heart Church to say their final farewells There was a big day for up-and-coming Irish designers at Brown Thomas yesterday folks and BT is set to keep the flag flying for the rest of the month.

Most of them were there to see one of the longest-running shows in West End and Broadway history, others to support our very own super talented Susan McFadden But who needs Jenni Ani when we've got our very own Lorraine Keane? She's Ireland's romcom queen Our Big Brother babe is back. He's famous for, erm Georgia Salpa's ex fella Callum Best was back in Dublin last week folks at his old Krystle stomping ground.

This time out he was launching his very own Ibiza Boys Club clothing label. We brought you Wesanna, Bramy, and Colly. Heck, we even brought you Brippa. We've named 'em all. Step back, kiss yourself, and say hello to Brozzie There aint much happening folks The day all the lovely ladies don huge hats in the hope of getting a blue ribbon.

And we thought it was all about the horses We have to say folks we're fast becoming big fans of the talent coming out of new player on the block, Distinct Model Management, especially the fresh faced Li-Ann Small. But don't fret folks, those Hollywood types didn't totally forget about wee Ireland. British actress and a big star from said movie, Ruth Wilson, shone with beauty in the foyer of the old Dublin cinema Summer fashions usually include light breathable fabrics, tees, shorts, skirts, sandals, and shades.

But this being Ireland, the aul trusty umbrella has to be part of every outfit single consideration. Like, keep one tucked into yer speedos. All of Ireland's top catwalkers were on show and Bray's very own Laura Whitmore was there hosting the whole sexy shebang. What a way to launch a festival It was all to do with Cheek Frills knickers and bras and wotnot Miss Ireland has been chosen folks and we're totally stoked.

But, she's also a natural ginger top. It really is about time Ireland sent a redhead out to conquer the world Our very own Rozanna Purcell has evolved a wee bit since we first laid eyes on her at Miss Universe Ireland back in Finally, she's an uber fit Super Woman seeking justice while chasing down the bad guys on Dublin's shady streets The weather's way too warm to even contemplate winter woolies.

But then again folks, fashion never sleeps. Yesterday we got the first previews of the Brown Thomas Autumn Winter collections with the likes of new gal Li-Ann Small from Distinct Model Management showing us all what's in store We're in unchartered territory folks as far as weather goes. Over a week of glorious uninterrupted sunshine, it's nearly got to the stage where we're taking it all for granted.

Like, we've even sent our factor smothered snappers out to the beach where all the best action seems to be at That Marker Hotel is fast becoming the 'in' place in the city to be seen folks. We're hearing very good things. Yesterday we staked out the hip joint like the good paps that we are and spotted a whole bunch o' celeb types, some doing The Apprentice thang Shout The Musical opened at The Tivoli last week bringing waves of Sixties nostalgia loaded with fashion and music from the swingingest of decades.

We're happy to report Ireland's most fashion-zany weather woman Jean Byrne was there, dressed very appropriate for the era. Saying that, she was probably just wearing the first thing that fell out of her infamous wardrobe It's almost that time of the year once again folks. All the new Miss Irelandites got rolled out in front of our snappers yesterday at Buck Whaleys for a preview of their loveliness. A bumper crop for , a vintage year we think you'll find They're shining a much needed light for children and celebrating their 10th anniversary doing so.

This year has seen the CARI charity put its fashion foot forward with some big glitzy shows. There's no denying that our very own Amanda Byram has taken the TV presenting world by storm over the past decade or so with her unique brand of cheeky Irish charisma and beauty in bags.

Well folks, Everleigh Garden can thank the once controversial smoking ban for moving operations outside and creating a whole new Dublin club vibe. We wuz there for Ladies' Night this week Those crazy Cannonballers are about to get together once again for the annual Run.

Petrol-heads and busty babes combine for three days every August, all in the name of fast flash motors. She's the hottest property we have out in Hollywoodland at the moment, winning every big role there is for a fresh-faced innocent.

You'd have to be living under a sound-proof rock not to know Rihanna was hanging out in Dublin over the weekend gone. It seemed like every club in town was having an after-concert-after-party.

We made it to three such venues, our Ri-Ri even made an appearance at one If like us you're a big fan of the zombie movie genre, well folks, things just even zombier. And if that wasn't drama enough for you we had Tallafornia former love birds at the Irish Premiere last night, with one of them showing off a new bit of eye-candy The weather gave us four seasons every ten minutes and yet it was still a rather tasty weekend.

Over at the lovely Iveagh Gardens we had another year of culinary delights, festive fare, and gorgeous Glenda with the Taste of Dublin They may be sadly down a member but the Boyzone boyz went back to where it all started last night when they recorded a 'For One Night Only' special with Gay Byrne to celebrate their 20th anniversary. We're so excira right now some wee just escaped We have a bone to pick with Reality TV show makers and telecasters is that a thing? According to those in the know, Angela Scanlon is a presenter, fashion writer and stylist on the up And you gotta have an edge folks.

All we know is she's a hot ginger Irish gal with attitude and freckles in buckets, last night we caught up with her good self at the 'Alex And Ani' launch in Arnotts Ireland and sunny weather don't usually belong in the same sentence so we're all chuffed to bits and trying to rock 'pasty paddy in the sun' chic. This week we spotted a few familiar faces trying to navigate early summer fashion and Dublin in the sun Of course, The Glenda and a few other ShowBiz.

Good news - we hear she's landed a right decent nixer here in Dublin. Well folks, it seems 80s nostalgia is right back in style at Movies at Dundrum. Popcorn is vegan-friendly, right? Happy to say, our Jimbob was back to his old self when judged Miss Vanilla at Vanilla Nightclub last weekend with a few other likely lads Fashion and charity go hand in hand in this town folks, those shrewd stylistas like to mix the two so those without get something from those with.

Ever since the Conor Buckley fella leant his midas-touch to the newly opened Madison Nightclub on Wicklow Street the place has been choc-a-bloc folks. It's a favourite charity for ladies that like to lunch and one of our favourites too folks. But at least we had a few sexy models on hand and a classic Ford Escort RS One of the great Irish model agency traditions is the annual glam Christmas Party folks, as sure as Santa himself. Rochie's gals hit Harry's on the Green for some Summer Lovin' last weekend It was a pretty busy weekend folks here at the Biz of Show.

They nearly fooled us by having it in the very same location as last year's bash, but you can't out-fox a foxy fox, as they say Ever want to know what it would feel like to walk around in Glenda Gilson's or Amy Huberman's glam clothes? Well, you no longer have to swipe gear off their washing lines folks.

You can now get their garbs at the very reasonable price with the 'Buy My Dress' campaign Irish broadcasting ledge Gerry Ryan may be gone but he's most certainly living on through his talented tribe of ShowBizzy kids.

And of course, there was a few other Ryaners in the crowd cheering her on We're big fans of old footage of Johnny Giles doing twinkle toes on the soccer pitch. Hey, we even dig how his eyebrows dance on screen during his punditry. But seeing the former footie star doing his thing on the dance-floor? Well, that's another matter.

Well now, well now. The Voice of Ireland wrapped-up last night with the talented Keith Hanley walking away as victor. And in true music industry style, the cast and crew hit the town for the traditional wrap-party. Even our Kelly Mongan tagged along despite being a tad past her due-date But after a few half shandies, a bit of bop, and all that VIP razzmatazz - a good few of the gorgeous guests let it all hang out folks. Witness, after the VIPs It was anything but That's right, it felt like a far bigger much brassier and more bodacious affair than ever before at The Marker Hotel.

Here is a mere fraction of all the lovely gunas rocking the red carpet last weekend Yet it all went a bit 80s last weekend when she rocked a modern day twist on the dreaded Perm. There's a novel new way to fund films folks. We're talking table quizzes. That's right, the aul knees-up down the boozer with a few teams with funny names like The Cupid Stunts answering questions is a shrewd way of getting seed-money to get your wee flick moving.

Here at the ShowBizness of Irelandness we like to keep our eye on what's coming next, so you'll always find us checking out what those student types are up to.

Prepare To Be Broody Now, we don't normally run photos of babies and all that girlie stuff but after TV3 presenter Anna Daly introduced her baby Euan to us outside Mothercare yesterday we just went all goo-goo-gooey. It has taken a while but finally The Late Late has developed an edge folks. Turns-out the boys can talk as good as they mix their martial arts She's doing a bit of the aul shoe design. Now, what with her being the busiest human being in Ireland, we don't understand where she got the time to produce a full range of exquisite Bourbon shoes for women She must have Elves If you happen down by the Lord Edward Street direction you might find yourself in 15th century France folks for TV movie 'Reign' is currently shooting at Christ Church.

They fight like their Da does, do the Irish dancin', and wear the double denim. What with all her fancy hobnobbing over in that London and other far flung places, we don't get to see too much of Georgia Salpa these days. Sure, we fell-out a few times over the years but what family doesn't? Well, The Salpa was home last night chowing down the finest Thai grub at Koh Restaurant with her model mates They've been a hot ShowBiz couple about the town for a while yet Daniella Moyles and Dara Quilty have flown under the radar by keeping it all on the D.

Our favourite time of the year, Beauty Pageant Season has kicked off folks and we couldn't be happier. When does a joke stop being funny folks? A millisecond after the people it's taking the piss out of get in on it. Indie Pendence Days are coming to Cork this summer folks but don't worry, we won't need Will Smith to get us out of an intergalactic overlord suppression type scenario. It's only a mere month away from the Peter Mark VIP Style Awards folks, and all of the favourites are already out being uber stylish on a daily basis, looking to scoop-up one of those coveted prizes.

Yesterday we went for a slap-up breakfast with some of the top style contenders on South William Street where ner a greasy spoon fry-up was consumed by anyone Between all the gaiety, blood, boozin' and tears there was actually a few hip young popstaresque celebrity types in town over Paddy's weekend folks.

We had the likes of One Direction, Girls Aloud and Carrie Underwood knocking around this rather green-around-the-gills city Has anyone noticed the high number bikini clad photocalls in the papers this week with a St Patrick's Day theme? We're not complaining or anything but we're not quite sure Saint Paddy would have approved. The ladies of Dublin took a rather long Diet Coke break yesterday to celebrate the 30th anniversary of Diet Coke.

Well, that's not strictly true folks. But the talented song and dance man didn't just leave it there folks, hell no. He hit Everleigh Garden for his gig afterparty, and even brought his very own drink As unlikely as it sounds folks, apparently our fav model-come-DJ Louise Kavanagh can't find herself a full-time fella in Dublin and we hear she's on an iPhone dating App finding a man.

We don't really know why our very own Samantha Mumba has dropped off the Pop radar over the past few years folks, but we've really missed the gal. Last weekend she made her live comeback at F. Some of the prettiest gals about town can be the meanest bad-asses when you hit them in the ring folks. Easter is coming folks and like all Christian holidays we have no idear what our traditions have to do with the actual Biblical event they represent.

We don't know what's in the Dublin water of late folks, but everyone's having babies. And we just found out that you can't have a baby without a Mammy who knew? He's the only Irish actor we know of who has a must-do-topless-scene clause written into every movie contract, but hey, we still love the bones of Eoin Macken. We have no idea what that is or if it's even an actual thing Big ShowBiz news day folks.

Last night the man with nothing but tiger blood flowing through his veins showed up in Dublin with a wee porn star by his side. We're talking Charlie Sheen hanging out at the Slash concert When busty model Hazel O'Sullivan peers over her glasses and authoritatively says: We are starting to really get into MMA folks. That's Mixed Martial Arts to all you non jiu-jitsu aficionados.

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Last weekend Dublin's social network landed in Krystle as entrepreneurial types sipped champers with model types DIT on a gentleman of taste and refinement at Dtwo. Jockey to the oche, and the Crowned Prince was A favourite celebrity hangout hotel which has been off the radar for a while has refurbished and reopened. Thus, we have high hopes We're not too sure how to approach this one folks. Those Hardy Bucks with their sometimes-hit-sometimes-miss TV show have really upped the ante. Not content with their wee spot on the RTE they've only gone and upgraded to a full-length full-on movie.

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We had high hopes Most of Dublin's snappers looked on with envy as some steady handed lucky fellar fixed and tightened-up her suspender belt. We're thinking the Paddy's Day Parade is gonna get a bit more Rio-esque in coming years what with all the uber hot Miss Carnival Ireland contestants sambaing around the place.

Last weekend the very beautiful and rather shapely Adriana Vieira was crowned Miss Carnival Ireland What with every other Irish female on Twitter claiming to be a Stylist you would think that there might have been a few more hues on the gunas at The IFTAs. Some style guru in-da-know obviously said "black is in this season" and hey prrresto most of our lovely ladies rocked out in black.

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But still, we need more. Good news, here comes Miss Carnival Ireland She's Ireland's favourite sweetheart with the million dollar smile and curves in all the right places. Our Caroline Morahan aka C-Mo aint just a TV presenter and up-and-coming actress folks, she's also into the aul fashion as we saw when we spotted her doing a street-style shoot for her Littlewoods Ireland blog in Ranelagh yesterday The world's longest name film festival is gearing up for U2's favourite artist Guggi is back at it again folks.

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He cleverly hid in his Da's shed, last place anyone would look. Anyhoo we nabbed Laurence Kinlan strolling down Grafton Street this week no probs. Good news folks, that filthy mouthed wagon Katherine Lynch and her long suffering sidekick Brian Dowling are back to camp-up and kitsch-in your TV screens. Wagon's Den recorded its first show last night with the likes of Helen Flanagan propping up the couch And with all the general wedding fever in the air newlywed Vogue Williams was in the hot seat gushing about her fellar Brian McFadden It's only folks and as per usual it takes a wee while for the party scene to kick off round these here parts.

So this year's first post shall have a Christmas theme. We are pretty sure we didn't die during the whole apocalypse thing but hey, what do we know? We celebrated life on They brought us the likes of Fade Street, Celebrity Salon, and Dublin Housewives yet instead of being locked up for crimes against television the Straywave crew were out last night celebrating their Christmas party. Is there no justice in this country, well, is there?

Plus, lots of model types turned out to support our very own Nadia Forde on stage giving it some of the aul: More good news this Festive Season folks, former BScene model agency business partners have become civil partners with a romantic yuletide reception at The Clyde Court Hotel.

It's our favourite time of the year again folks, yup, the Model Agency Christmas party season All our top motts wot model in the one place at the one time. First out of the starter blocks this year was Assets at Bucks Townhouse. We couldn't be happier folks.

Ireland's top catwalk model Sarah Morrissey has only gone and got herself all engaged to long time beau Pat Jennings Junior over in that New York. We caught up with the cute couple and their humongous diamond at the Excellence in Sport Awards this week Remember that whole TV3 Celebrity Salon reality show a few months back folks? We do too, although the counselling is starting to help.

Well, the good people behind the show have opened a pop-up Christmas salon for all you lovely ladies to get all dollied-up for the Festive Season while hanging out with fabloosh slebs We've not been loving The Late Late this season folks, it's starting to feel a tad dated and dusty.

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It only got off the ground in yet the Trinity College Samsung Fashion Show has gone from strength to strength folks. Anything UCD can do Last week the chic student set catwalked their wee arses off at the exclusive Winter Garden of the National Gallery of Ireland, mind you And So It Begins It aint even December yet, and yet, the first of many Christmas parties kicked off last night and we're not even talking about the model agency bashes yet.

And no, not model politicians, don't get those two words mixed-up. Last night the beautiful and not so beautiful mixed seamlessly on the catwalk for The Oireachtas Christmas Fashion Show Well done to our very own Glenda Gilson folks for hosting her shapely backside off at Childline last weekend. We caught-up with her good self at the traditional Lillies Bordello gig afterparty rocking what they're calling a gee-shirt.

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And we're only taking her word that she's in the family way as there was ner a sign of a baby bump on show as she fashionably rocked a military style jacket and skinny black shiny leggings at Newstalk this week Seeing as it's a dull and damp week in Dublin folks, we thought we'd bring you even more pics of lovely girls in bikinis.

It's just how we roll. But it's all in aid of Autism Ireland as the Miss Bikini Ireland contestants are bringing out a calendar this December Awesome news folks, an Irish model we earmarked for greatness over a year back is heading to the Miss Universe contest and really is in with a shout of taking home the tiara. Not since Che Guevara hopped on a motorcycle has a travel epilogue been more anticipated.

We are of course referring to the much talked about upcoming TV show featuring the original odd couple Glenda Gilson and Vincent Browne hitting the hottest tourist spots hard across the continent Shocking when you think Irish culture completely revolves around Beauty Pageants. But don't worry folks, we're sending 19 year old Tallaght babe Lisa Hogan to duke-it-out bikini stylee in Shanghai They've got GAA in their blood and passion in their eyes.

And if they hook-up they'll be calling them 'Cazanna'. It was 'Lessons in Lingerie' once again at Brown Thomas We had a bit of a ShowBiz wedding last weekend folks, and we couldn't be happier for the happy couple. Fair play to Georgia Salpa folks, she sure is making hay while the sun shines.

And even though the sun wasn't really shining in Dublin yesterday, our Georgie-Girl was out on the streets launching her 'Salpa Salon' and massaging Lynx on to the heads of some lucky lads It's been a fierce long while since we last saw Brian O'Driscoll and Amy Huberman looking all casual at a social event.

The Late Late Show sure has got off to a slow start this Season but they kinda made-up for misdemeanours past with a bumper crop of stars last Friday night. And with those cheeky chaps One Direction heading up the proceedings our poor aul snappers had to circumnavigate hoards of screaming teenies doing what screaming teenies do It seems like birthday gal Holly Carpenter has been around the social-scene for yonks, yet she's pretty much a nubie since winning Miss Universe Ireland in Last weekend she celebrated her 21st with hunky boyfriend Cian Healy on hand.

They're calling them Colly. Big news on The Glenda front folks, our favourite former model come Xpose presenter has only gone and landed the Cheerios Childline Concert presenting gig alongside Keith Duffy.

But no matter how big she gets, she's still Gillo from the Block Some of our fav celeb types musta been really busy during the Celtic Tiger years folks for most of them had buckets of kiddies on hand at the Irish Premiere of 'Madagascar 3: That's right folks, there's another Irish 'Miss' pageant on the horizon and this time we're all for it.

Well, some genius decided to take all the lovely-girlness outta the proceedings and boil it all down to a bikini parade. It's Miss Bikini Ireland Whatever the gals can do the fellars can do almost nearly as good-ish. That's what we say and that's what the good folk at The Sunday World say too for they gave us equality last night when they put on a beauty pageant for men in Lillies Bordello.

Not content with being one-half of 'Madest' and having her appendix out live on Twitter, yer wan Madeline Mulqueen cornered the newspapers again this week after apparently taking a left hook in Maccer Dees last weekend. We caught up with likely Limerick lass hanging around Smithfield yesterday, no doubt looking for The Horse Outside Fair We're taking bets on who'll last the longest, the bookies are calling this one Madest V Jonnolly Those canny folk at Straywave are at it again, knocking out new TV shows.

The new Grafton Lounge got all loved-up last night for the communal love-in Ireland's favourite and funniest actress Amy Huberman was out on the promo trail this week to alert one-and-all that the new season of Comedy Central's 'Threesome' is almost upon us. We weren't invited to the screening at Odessa but we caught her good self at Today FM Where to start folks, where to start?

Last weekend's Late Late Show was a rearranged format car crash in slow-hideous-motion. Some of the worst produced and presented TV we've seen in many a year. It was like they wanted to do a Graham Norton but ended-up with an Alan Partridge. Best watched muted and from behind the hands, you know what we mean It all wrapped-up at Wrights last weekend Ner a sign o' Calum Best.

Our newest celebbo couple attended the Irish Premiere of 'Savages' last night, they're calling them Hagus. We know your average Irish woman is a complete closet shoe fetishist folks, so those shrewd peeps over at Arnotts have opened a 10, square foot erotic adventure playground dedicated to the glorious stiletto heel. Fair play to those handsome GAA fellas folks, they've started to step-out of the shadows of their rich rugby compatriots.

Not only that, they're top blokes too always up for a good turn. Last night a few boot boys came out for a special charity fundraiser at Lillies Bordello We know we've harped on about the perpetual fabulousness of Amy Huberman in the past but folks, she rarely gets it wrong. Perfect mix of angel features and a sense of humour that would make a docker blush. Our very own Hollywood actress via Roscommon and few other far flung places, Mischa Barton, is holed-up in The Gaiety at the moment starring in 'Steel Magnolias'.

We spotted The OC babe hitting Harrys Bar last night rocking a massive rock on her engagement finger We don't care how many Eurovisions Johnny Logan has won, a man approaching sixty should not be rocking out in jeggings.

In fact, no man should. It's just so wrong on levels folks. Saying that, we're still strangely aroused yet completely disgusted by the arousal. Stop it JoLo, you're challenging all male heterosexuality with your tight-trou. We're troubled, somebody, Hold Me Now Where to start with this Calum Best fella folks and all the Irish models They're calling them 'The Madest'. Both parties partied as they done-the-rounds of radio stations promoting stuff and just being generally fab We've said the streets are lined with models on many occasions before on this site, mainly due poor editorial and apathy.

But it was always meant in the metaphorical sense folks. Yesterday the streets of Dublin were literally lined with models as the Dublin Fashion Festival kicked off with live catwalk shows under the clear blue skies Models Atop Grafton St Hear ye hear ye, the new golden dawn is nigh The summer's over and the weather just got good.

And with the glorious sunshine comes our glorious Irish models parading around like the streets of Dublin were paved with catwalks. In recent years folks, sightings of TV presenter now budding actress Caroline Morahan have become rarer and rarer. She's almost as mythical as Bigfoot or Nessy There's no doubt Glenda Gilson has the best body in the biz folks, but put that toned torso into tight denims and you're onto a winner.

Well, it's almost upon folks. Sure, they wanted us there as the official photographers but we couldn't do the nixer as we'll be busy washing our hair and stuff this weekend Good news folks, in the wake of the demise of our beloved photocall queens proper fashion models have sprung-up all over the place like tall willowy flowers in Spring.

And where can these catwalkers go without talented designers to garb them out? We're talking burlesque, queens, cross dressers, and all the like - that was even before their Hen-slash-Stag party got going Another epic series of Celebrity Salon cometh folks. They launched the wee show at Dandelion last weekend Good news folks, amid all those summer Hollywood blockbusters there's a wee Irish gem called 'Shadow Dancer' doing the rounds at the cinema.

This week it opened with our very own Irma Mali there with a very lucky fellar on her arm Who wudda thunk it folks? Yes folks, it's that time of the year again when every self respecting woman in Ireland goes a bit weird and heads to The RDS for the Dublin Horse Show and ner a one of 'em goes near the nags. They stick feathers in their hats, break out the Debs dresses, and compete in Ladies' Day clothes coordinating competition We're not that aware of former Miss Universe Ireland Rozanna Purcell's background folks other than she hails from Tipperary and has unfeasibly plump lips.

Hats off to The Farreller folks, not only did he arrange to have the Premiere for Total Recall in his hometown, he also brought along the rather lovely leading ladies. So we know every single electronic and hardcopy publication in Ireland is gonna be running Katie Taylor today, and rightly so We snapped the golden girl yesterday as she landed in Dublin with the rest of the Irish Olympic boxing squad, and yes, she's as awesome and humble as everyone says she is With Brian McFadden laid-up with food poisoning it was down to his future wife to address the crowds in Dublin yesterday at the Gay Rights march.

To be honest folks, when we first caught sight of the majestic and awesome Wright Venue just as the recession kicked-in, we thought it wouldn't see its first birthday.

What do we know? The WV just celebrated birthday number three with some fellar from Chelsea there getting the gals all hot and bovvered With the likes of traditional ShowBiz. But good news folks, Her Vogueness is home at the mo getting ready to rock that body down the aisle There's that awkward moment you dread folks, you know, when you introduce your girlfriend to your parents. Well, the Jedward lads had a similar experience last week when their girlfriend-of-sorts Tara Reid met the hardcore Jedite fanbase at the airport.

Luckily she was disguised as a 13 year old girl Lots of Dublin social types took literally moments away from their Twitter accounts to attend the Given Liqueur launch at The Grafton Lounge this week. We don't know what the actual attraction is between the Jedward twinnies and Hollywoodette Tara Reid. But the tasty threesome were back on Irish soil this week for a dinner date for three at The Trocadero We spotted the new bezzies strutting around town last week, they're calling them Mizanna.

Dublin Fashion Festival is coming right at us this September 6th, and it was all launched last week by the lovely Amanda Byram. Better than that folks, newly single model Irma Mali bravely stepped out on the catwalk in front of her adopted home crowd for the first time since breaking up with yer man Danny O'Donoghue When we hear the name Ted immediately we think of that poor accident prone priest stranded on Craggy Island dreaming of Vegas.

But folks those Hollywood types have hijacked our Ted and turned him into a filthy gobbed Teddy Bear, thankfully it's Seth MacFarlane's baby so we'll let this one run He was the man that brought us Fade Street and never said sorry, she was once Ireland's top catwalk queen now acting out in Fair City.

We can't remember the last time there were so many peeps looking like a virgin in The Aviva Stadium. But then again, when Madonna's dealing MDNA out to Dubliners you're always gonna get some quare looking folk knocking about.

It was very wet, yet there were voguers with conical bras everywhere What an opening weekend for The Dark Knight Rises, cinemas sold-out throughout the land. It seems that tragic pointless random slaying of innocence in America didn't scare Batman fans away on this side of the Atlantic.

We were at the Irish Premiere last week where our old friend Robert Sheehan was looking rather foppish indeed in his attire It was very much a Polish affair at Bucks Townhouse last night as hot business woman Izabela Chudzicka brought out a bevy of her beautiful native sisters for the PartyGirl. Right so, seeya folks. Okay, so we know Victoria Beckham is infamous for her Posh-Pout but we thought a wee visit to Ireland would put a smile on her face. Sure, even the Queen cracked a grin or two while she was here and she's not even married to David Beckham.

Still, Vicky B's new collection at Brown Thomas is pretty damn spectacular all the same There we were expecting a couple of mad quare wans waving American flags in funny hats outside the Bruce Springsteen gig at The RDS last night, and who should show up? You know, research for their Abraham Lincoln biopic and all that. Big Springsteen fan Honest Abe was We don't know what's in the water those big rugby fellars drink but it most certainly has extract of the mythical mojo fruit added.

Yup, you guessed it. Another lucky lad from a rugger background is dating a lovely Irish model. MTV's bright shining light in a gloomy grey TV landscape of generic sameness just happens to be a blonde Bray babe called Laura Whitmore.

Herself and Mandy Byram are running rings around all other small screen lady presenters over in that London, we caught up with The Whitmore at Saturday Night With Miriam One was the mammy of Ramsay Street, the other was the darling of The O. We wuz all geared-up to hang with Fiddy this week folks at the Carphone Warehouse.

Had our cameras blinged-up, gold teeth, parrots on shoulders, wooden legs, and eye-patches. That's how rappers dress, yeah? But all we got was lovely Louise Kavanagh in jean-shorts cuz that 50 Cent lad went and put his foot in it Ever since she legged it to that London top-heavy model Georgia Salpa hasn't looked back.

Good news folks, her immenseness was amid us island-bound peasants late last week doing good for the Irish economy by splurging some of her UK glossy mag money in Dublin shops Good old Keith 'Duster' Duffy folks, he sure knows how to throw a party. There's a new Irish website alive alive-o right now folks, and it's just for the laaadies. IE and it'll tickle yer fallopian tubes and other womany bits us fellas have no clue about That dynamic Rosanna Davison wan can do anything folks.

Tony Stark hasn't a patch You heard it here first folks, mainly because we made it up. They, and by that we mean us, are calling them Gradia Ever heard of Bansha folks? No, neither had we We may or may not have snatched a pic of our Una's ankle Work hard, play even harder.

That's the motto of the cast and crew of TV3's Celebrity Salon. We caught-up with the so-sozzled-crew as they rolled-out of Harrys Bar the other night after a spot of Karaoke and a sneaky bevy or two or three.

All this stuff better make it into the actual show The gang of producers behind such shows as Fade Street, Dublin Housewives, and Celebrity Salon aren't so much handpicking contestants for their new breed of surreality shows folks, more building-up an extended and slightly dysfunctional family. Those Straywave cats brought the warring Housewives out to be styled by the Celeb Salonites at Hairspray yesterday Truth is folks, all we was gettin' was frames full of umbrella blockers and face-palms.

Now, we wouldn't be the world's biggest Westlife fans but fair play to the lads folks. They sure made a wee bit of talent stretch a very long way and to be really honest, a couple of their tunes aint all that bad. The fivesome-now-foursome said their final farewells with two massive monster Croker gigs last weekend Yes folks, she went off to that London to become a Playboy bunny and all that but she's home now, and boy did we miss her. We're talking about bustilicious babe Louise Kavanagh and this is how she showed-up for work at The Gypsy Rose yesterday.

Okay, so the whole Electric Burma concert was a world class show of how to entertain and impress a deserving foreign dignitary.

Bad news, her jumper reads "Not For Sale". Darn, and there we wuz searching down the back of the couch for the Communion money and cashing in Granny's Prize Bonds Seems like celebrity lifestyle isn't all limos, lollipops, and belly laughs folks. Pooped so they were Us poor Irish feckers just can't get a break. The rain is supposed to mainly fall in Spain but while it was belting down here in buckets, those cheeky Spaniards were kicking our wee green arses in Poland. Still, Jamie Oliver and Co.

Where would you get it folks? An actual Hollywood star turned-up at an Irish movie premiere and a random spontaneous event related to the plot of the film occurred right in front of the press and assembled celeb types. A few little known facts about Bressie off The Voice folks. His name is actually Niall Breslin, he once aspired to be a rugby hero, he used to do music in a band, and he even drew a moustache on a Juliette Lewis poster with a marker! That was all before he came our fav photocall princess.

Let's face it - he's the new Salpa They've only just picked Miss Ireland and the next lot of lovelies are lining up to be Miss Universe Ireland Us Irish luv an aul beauty pageant so we do That fancy pants Claudine Palmer one was in for the 50th Late Late Show thingy last weekend, but her being all LA and stuff, one outfit just wouldn't do the job.

She darted from RTE in a haze of bling and heels, flipped her designer gear, and hit Bucks. Faster than Superman, even without a phone box For some reason Jedward were our main Olympic Torch bearers of note cuz, you know, their hair looks like the fire on a torch.

Well, at least they all got to keep the massive gold cigarette lighters. It all got a bit big-boys-toys last weekend what with the Bavaria City Racing thing blocking-off half the town. But not even the persistent pelting rain kept the big boys at home, well who wouldn't queue up to see The Glenda get her hands on Jenson Button's shiny helmet!

Phnarr phnarr woof woof etc Well, there's no denying that the much hyped Late Late Show 50th Anniversary special didn't deliver in buckets folks. Lots of guests and lots of memories, bags of impromptu interruptions, and many a dram of the hard stuff sank At times it all went Nell McCafferty Strange turn of events last night folks, we had Ireland's last favorite celeb and Ireland's latest bunch of celebs throwing separate bashes in the same venue. Where to start folks? TV3's Dublin Housewives hit our screens this week and boy has it delivered.

We were expecting this to be a pseudo glammed-up champagne soaked extravaganza of fakeness and false lashes. Sure, we got that. And so much bloody more A new fad has come to Ireland folks, and to be honest, we're kinda stoked. If like us you get your daily caffeine intake via hot milky beverages in any given coffee shop with an open door, then get ready for alternative. It's called Bubblicity Tea and even our very own Kathryn Thomas digs it As Jedward arrived home from Eurovision disaster yesterday something dawned on us folks, Ireland will never win Eurovision again.

It was Harrys on the Green once again last night as our favourite models had another Catwalk 2 Kilimanjaro launch party. Now, we don't think they're going back up the African mountain so we reckon it was all to launch the accompanying TV show they shot way back when.

We're not great when it comes to the aul facts The lovely big warm sun over Ireland was all anyone was talking about yesterday, ironic then that all the celeb types ran to the snow the first chance they got. Finally folks, we found him. And right on our very own bloody doorstep. We're talking about the man whose song 'Mandy' made poor artistically frustrated Brian McFadden quit Westlife, we're hoping Barry Manilow is here to apologise to the Irish Nation Kearney Is Europe's Best The sun finally turned the map the right way round and found its way to Ireland yesterday.

We're feckin' back baby Kayla you are crazy! The court system doesnt give a damn about justice when it comes to the father. My children were kidnapped using the court system. This WAS because i was a male. Your response to this blog is proof you fit in the category of being a blatent male hater.

Please disect this for the masangany in which you will portrait it as. I along with others are fed up with this childish behavior exhibited by few females and we WILL seek justice. I do beleive men need a place to vent and support. I assumed it was a man that generated this site and was astonished to see it was a woman. And to give some personal insight, I also see this website as dangerous.

If the wrong kind of man , a NPD man got a wind of this forum…. Kayla why do you find information that is helping many men make sense out of the craziness and pain they had dangerous? What if a NPD woman found a site about what jerks men are and you better believe they are out there. I write for you guys and its your opinion that matters. Tyrants and bullies read all sorts of stuff to justify their behavior. This is really no differant. Sure, you can cherry pick, but I read the article with a broad understanding that there are certain aspects that may apply to relationships like this.

My wife for instance went to college and never worked a day since we got married and later had children. She choose to stay home which was a pretty significant stressor to me.

Over the years I did get resentful and angry at times that I was not able to fully participate in all the fun stuff she did with them while I was working. After her own internal resentments built, I was accused of not being fully present in our family which was a so hurtful because I did focus on work to afford her those choices. I was also accused of being too controlling of the money aspects of our relationship.

I guess I should have just turned over my paycheck and shut the hell up? Fortunatly I invested very wisely and we are now pretty set. I am now being portrayed as the person who drove her into psycotherapy because I alone destroyed her self esteem. Rearly a hot meal on the table when I came home. I have enough of my own self esteem that I would feel funny expecting that at all.

The kids ate mac and cheese and pizza boxes were frequent guests in our recycle bin. The house was always clean and clean cloths at the ready, but we are all supposed to now pick up the slack and do for ourselves.

However, she has no urgency even doing a resume as our kids are now within college age. Have I been too nice and too focused on our financial security? This site is a terrific resource for men who are dealing or became entangled with with very sick disturbed individual women, not an entire gender.

Most men and women are neither saints or demons, somewhere in between. It is entirely naive or self-serving to think otherwise. First off, I am not accusing you condoning physical violence. I think the way you write about it minimizes the behavior. Second, you may be able to obtain restraining orders under false pretenses usually for a period of 14 days before you have to attend a hearing to prove the allegations.

No judge would extend one for more than a year without something solid. If you were educating women on how abusive men can be and using derogatory comments to describe them and their behavior I would have a problem with it. Also your forum is open. I am really shocked at some of your posts and felt I should engage you on them.

I have looked for a forum to help me figure out how to deal with an abusive spouse and have found none that specialize on men in this kind of setting. Clearly, those women have no respect for the opposite sex. I am looking for a solution. Not to tell the world how crazy my relationship is. I feel some of your blogs are inflammatory and wanted to give you a female perspective on your work. First, I left you several instances i. I assume your ex-husband said and did things that were extreme and pushed you to the limit now and again.

Did you always keep your cool and not lash out in anger? Were you always perfectly reasonable when he was at his most hurtful? If you ever verbally snapped back at him, did he ever use that behavior to portray you as emotional or out of control? Second, I know firsthand of many cases in which women have managed to drag out denying or limiting visitation between children and their fathers for much longer than 14 days.

Negative legal advocates have plenty of tricks up their sleeves to drag out this process based on little or no evidence.

In fact, many attorneys bad ones encourage their female clients to make false charges to improve their chances at court. They are predatory abusers. I can understand why some women are uncomfortable with what my readers and I have to say.

I welcome comments from readers, whether they agree with me or not. I read the above, and I agree with everything you say. A woman indeed has a choice to have a career or not work, and a man has no choice in the matter. As a guy, If I could get away from working for a couple of years, and not be shamed for it, I would do it in a heartbeat.

But those ulterior reasons are usually embellished more to make it seem like they are not lazy so people would not shame on them as much. I respect independent women, or women who will actually work again full-time when the kids are older. Do you know how much childcare costs are? What a nice chunk of change to be taken from your earnings. Depending on the financial situation it might make more sense for one of the parents to stay at home. So, even if later these women who choose to be housewives change their mind and want to rejoin the workforce after their children are older they have a few issues.

They managed to complete their degree but have no work experience therefore making it difficult to get a job that is meaningful to them. So, because they fell behind on their skills and lost experience these women are incapable of going back out into the work force and getting the experience?

Gosh, and you accused me of being derogatory towards women, Kayla. I actually believe most of these women are smart enough and capable enough of working, that is, if they can let go of the infantile wish to be taken care of. You accuse me of generalizations, but the second point you make is a gross generalization. Finding a job is difficult for most people, especially in this economy. It just means you have to put a little more time and effort into it and deal with some possible jerks.

The belief system you express in your most recent comment, Kayla, are examples of learned helplessness and hostile dependency —neither of which are healthy for you or others who interact with you. Children should receive reasonable support until they are 18—IF the mother does not interfere and and deny the father access to the children and should receive spousal support for no more than 2 years if she is capable of working.

Two years is a more than ample length of time to get up to speed on skills and find a job. There is no logic you can use to explain this to me.

Knowing that I had a ticking clock hanging over my head to find a job to support myself was pretty good motivation. I have absolutely no sympathy for women who adopt these attitudes. They are the reason the negative stereotypes you bemoan exist, Kayla. Woman put themselves in a dangerous situation when they assume they can just stay home for the rest of their life. I love you Jennifer just for this answer. It was something I asked her for her commitment much before marriage.

Even in all her friends circle, literally every single lady I know works. As a man, I can take care of things to the best I can, but over that, it would depend on her too. Irony of life, even her mom and my mom her mom in law were working moms. My mom now stopped due to health issues and her mom is still working. You know, her line actually gets paid much more than mine even with half the exp she has compared to my exp in my line.

You dont need a degree to work at walmart. Being a stay at home mom is the greatest gift of all. You say you cook, clean, and take care of kids. Your always going to have to cook and clean. My ex wife just stayed home got fired and would not go back to work.

And when i put my foot down after 5 years she left me and got custody of our daughter and i have to pay child support now. I love my child to death and i miss her when she is gone. Its so bad when she goes back to her moms i have to close her door to her room cause it hurts to bad to see her stuff around.

Oh and the reason my ex got custody was because i have a job and she didnt so she could be their for her more. Our child is in school and i work 40 hours a week and feel like i got punished for having a job. Now our child is 11 and my ex is still a stay at home mom or a 30 year old retire as i like to put it. He finally recieved his HS diploma and my wife is pushing him to apply to 4 year colleges.

I have my values and a boy who did and sold drugs, failed HS, and had a gun in my house does not change his stripes in 8 months…. A young man with substance abuse and behavior problems goes away to live on campus….. I put it this way I say amost nothing anymore. I refuse to engage that everyone should have an education, but nobody is entitled to one.

Of the four people in our home, two people do not work, and two get up EVERY day and do what we are supposed to do. Me and our youngest son. Again, I made it clear in the most constructive and calm way I could I will do whatever it takes to protect him and me. The writing is on the wall. When it comes to the 11th hour that is the pathology in our family.

My wife refuses to engage until the last second and then threatens in the most passive agressive way possible to get her way. Whether it be, blame, shame or guilt. PLUS, I have her family pouring on at the same time, but unwilling to pass the hat.

It is coming to critical mass very quickly, and i full anticipate ,and prepearing for your same fate. She will get her way through the bias legal system, continue to rescue cats full time, and life goes on.

I feel your pain and have withdrawn totally from her physically and emotionally. Oprah has now turned into a good source into the window of what the world is regaurding legal and social landmines of how men are played like base fiddles. Men getting angry about being treated as an ATM and an emotional piece of funiture… who would have thought?

She had zero answer, however i suspect nothing much would change except having to deal with me on any level and having unlimited leverage. What about when the kids is a teenager and can fend for himself after school? What would the excuse for staying home be now? I stay home with my 16 month old son, and my husband works. I asked him, if I get a job, would he like to stay home with our son. I work just as hard as he does. You should also keep in mind some people have careers that are all or nothing, and are not family friendly.

Sometimes a spouse at home, managing the other side of the partnership is the way to go. My sister-in-law had an MBA and twins — she stayed at home, took care of everything while my executive brother often worked ungodly hours.

They have had a happy prosperous marriage for over 30 years. I know this is to years old and no one will probably read it, but I have to disagree and make a point. My ex husband chose to stay at home with our daughter and I worked for the duration of our marriage. Some men DO have a choice, and it was a choice that worked for us, and worked well. I had more earning potential therefor I worked.

These women choose to stay at home to raise their children. They happened to want to be more involved and probablly see working as taking time away from their ability to watch thier children learn and grow. They want to be there every step of the way. Husbandsin a healthy relationship should be able to understand that need. They expect their wives to support their need for a meaningful career.

And yes being a housewife is a job. So maybe you should try it sometime. You might rethink your position. Spousal support is not a form of abuse. Especially, if the children remain with her. If she is suffering financially the children will to. Everyone loses in divorce. The argument that only the ex-wife benefits is ridiculous. They are self-motivated and obviously there is no emotional bond with their children. Or, what if the father was abusive and neglectful should they be able to still come around?

Tey helped put this child on earth they can and should be held financially responsible. Now, if the mother is denying access because of her own hurt ego and is using her children as tools to torture her ex-husband then that would be an entirely different matter.

The court wants to find the most equitable resolution for both parties. Another way of saying it is being fair. And by the way, spousal support is a fraction of the amount of funds the wife previously had access to.

So I bet that would be motivation for a housewife to find a job. When your husband decides to leave you with all the martial debt, bills,and refuses to act like a mature responsible man, take care of his child or think he is not financially responsible for child care costs I see no problem demanding spousal support.

And not only one should be held responsible. Demanding some financial intervention does not make this person helpless or dependent. However, it might make them hostile. And how would my beliefs on this subject be unhealthy for others that interact with me? I wonder if it surprises you that I do have a full-time career in the military and at one point and time I would have liked to be a stay-at-home mother. I could only imagine how much worse my position would be if I had.

I am a supporter of housewives. Most especially those married to men in the service. While their husbands chose a very demanding career path they are at home keeping up with the house, rearing children, and maintaing the family finances. Tara gives here on this site. You are doing what Dr. Tara has written about in some of the other articles on the site: Going on endlessly about your feelings without doing anything about it.

This site is dangerous? Get a grip, take a deep breath and search around for a site that may be better suited to your situation. There are better places to vent. My ex has more advanced degrees than me. Kayla… for every example you can give, any guy on thyis site can match you and then some. T is talking about, show a little objectivity, then just about everyone here will accept your point of view. I know this article is a little old, but I have a situation on my hands that relates very closely to this article.

To be honest, I would love it if my wife could stay at home. When I say needy, I mean she likes to spend money. We were able to get it financed with a hefty down payment from my savings. I was happy with the deal, and so was she… for about 6 months. But, obviously, here is the problem we face. She likes to have new things. Hell, I like her to have new things also! If she lived more like me, maybe it would be. I drive a GMC pick-up with k miles.

I still like to eat Ramen Noodles, she likes to pick up Olive Garden. I was happy with my inch round screen TV, she made sure we picked up a inch LCD… and another inch for the bedroom. I like Folgers coffee, she needs Starbucks for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I could go on and on.

To be honest again, I actually like this about her! It helps me to enjoy some of the finer things. However, the problem still remains. We barely earn as much as we spend.

In my opinion, she has no legtimate reason to not work. We have a nanny who works for far less than she should, and that same nanny is required by the state to hire a housekeeper in order to keep her disability income, so we have a housekeeper.

The arguments over this turn into full blown fights, and show no signs of coming to an end. Second, all of these new things she likes and the UN-necessities e. Furthermore, in addition to her mother, you have had to hire a housekeeper and a nanny, so what exactly would your wife be doing at home during the day? I think you have a big difference in values.

Living paycheck to paycheck with a young child is a risky proposition. Being a saver vs. Does she get it? And what about healthcare benefits? Wanting to quit her job and the emotion and entitlement she has around this issue are not based upon reason. You may as well be talking to a wall. Perhaps if you speak to an objective third party expert e. Thank you for your response! Your comment about resentment is spot on. So, thank you very much for that. Also, I actually have suggested that I quit my job.

She was able to calculate how that budget would look, in her head, in a matter of miliseconds. FYI, you have a right to feel resentment re: A little different here though. When my wife and I married 3 years ago, she had one semester left for her undergrad in psychology. We had a child and she stayed home for a while. I want her to be fulfilled. Since then she has had 4 jobs and made ZERO money. First she got her R.

Everone of these has COST money. Our counselor told her 3 months ago to do some investigation into other schools she accused me of holding her back, not wanting her to get a degree. She has done none. Ok, a little off subject, but I understand…just a little different. My wife wants to work, but only for the fleeting moment that her latest interest is perked by…oh, and not make any money doing it.

I guess I could spend money going to Europe to learn soccer, in hopes of coming back to be a proffesional soccer player. Agree to comply with her wishes. However, as a family you need to do a test run.

Live off of your income, utilizing no credit, for 6 months. Meanwhile, take her income and put it in savings.

If your family is happy with your life style after 6 months, great!! Just my two cents!! How do I put this politely? My ex pulled this, too.

Now, in all fairness, she did mostly pull her own with the bills, but I ended up paying for a lot of things in more ways than just financially. This has gotten long and rambling, due to the hour. I work full time and pay for our mortgage, health insurance and food. We get by, but are not saving.

I love my wife dearly and will stay with her however the work chips fall. But, that would make our tight finances even tighter. Laugh, I wish I could take a few years off to pursue a PhD! I love research and am a closet statistics nerd.

But, I have to work to pay our bills. Being a professional student is one way many women avoid becoming an actual professional with an actual career. First they dabble in real estate, then interior design, next they want to become a chef or a charity events planner or a phlebotomist. I have been married for 10 years and my wife is someone I have known from childhood and I do love her like crazy.

Nevertheless, we have had frequent conflicts all through our married life, with many of the characteristics you describe in your posts, especially the professional victim syndrome. The way she remembers our 10 years together is that she has sacrificed her career for the sake of my work. It was always the case that she was not motivated enough to really get into it.

Nevertheless she blames for preventing her from working, and for then making her feel like a parasite, except that I never said that. I just said being the breadwinner, I deserve respect, and for my time to not be destroyed with tantrums, and to not be yelled at for the smallest things.

She used to say often that she feels useless not working, and I used to say well you are working at home and keeping the fires burning so I can get my work done. I told her you are half of this business. We were in a very unusual situation running a business single-handedly from a remote location, so I did believe this to be truth, for the most part.

But now saying this has come to bite me in the ass, because when I tell her I deserve respect, especially considering that feeding us is my responsibility, she immediately takes it to mean that I am calling her a leech. But I always did and still do consider her running the house and handling other administrative matters a great contribution to helping get our business off the ground, except for the fact that her frequent tantrums and propensity to get angry at me at the smallest things made it very difficult for me to actually work on the business.

I would always point out to her that this kind of conflict was inimical to both our interests but it continued. Eventually she started to say that she was very bored and wanted to move back to a big city.

However things have only gotten worse so far. Maybe it is me being impatient and expecting things to change faster? But I am doing it to keep both of us in this country where we have a better lifestyle, and she can actually find jobs and hopefully a career that she enjoys eventually.

She recently got a job and since then things have been even more crazy. But I am starting to be convinced that there is a deeper issue here than hormones or boredom. There seems to be a very pronounced lack of empathy. She did ask me for permission to open our relationship just before that, and I had agreed, as I am in principle open to the idea. On the other hand, when I had asked, many years earlier, to open our relationship, she had reacted totally negatively to this idea, equating it to some form of perversion.

However I had no idea she was already ready to jump into bed with someone, and especially at a time when I needed all the support I could get from her and she knew it. During this time, I felt utterly miserable and alone and let down.

She did later apologize for this whole debacle and for making me feel left out in the cold at such a difficult time. It has already had a big impact on my health I am sure. And perhaps my telling her that she is one half of our enterprise has made her feel that that she is entitled to repeatedly and frequently destroy my time and my mental peace. But the repeated episodes of irrational anger and tantrum throwing are very very difficult to live with. Perhaps I just need to give it some time… I have dated quite a few women and I realize that all women have hormones and mood swings, to some extent, and all of us are just humans and give into irrational crap once in a while.

Everyone can go through bad phases and it seems to me this is one such, and that things should get better. On top of that, she is now 32 and if we want to have kids we need to start trying soon. But I am not sure if I want to have kids with her. Another fact is that she was repeatedly raped as a child when she was just 3! This is also the reason I think why our sex life has been very difficult.

Anyway, I have written on for quite a long time… I am very confused. And yes she has threatened suicide several times, though never made an attempt, thank goodness. You have been the sole provider for the last decade. It makes me feel good to give him a nice place to come home to at the end of the day. You uprooted yourself, your business and started a university program, taking on unnecessary stressors and not only is your wife not happy, she expresses her gratitude by telling you she wants to have an affair.

PMS, an alleged abuse history, a sick father, boredom, confusion—these are all excuses and lame ones at that. Your wife is an adult, not a child. Furthermore, suicide threats are one of the most abusive things you can do to someone. I encourage you to think long and hard about how you want to spend the next 10 years of your life and keep in mind that the longer you stay with this woman, the more of your assets she gets should you divorce.

The courts will punish you for staying in your marriage. In my other post I told you about how my wife cried and told me nice things first time in 10 years when I was 2 hours away from signing a lease on my own place. I caved and moved back in with her….

She was convinced a week earlier that those two entities would gladly support her if I was out of the picture……. She has no Job…. No savings…no prospects for a Job…. So much for you not doing enough to support her all these years mentioned in one of your comments on another post.

They tell my child when she visits their daughters that if I loved her I would stay at home…and they have told me that if I was going to choose work, I should have been held down and forcibly sterilized.

Yes, this is in an affluent neighborhood in SC where wives of physicians actually, really, truly say this crap! I wonder what they would do if their husbands died or lost their jobs…or left their fat saggy asses for more appreciative, hard working women. Yes, they complain that they take care of the kids, take them to school, cook a new dinner nightly, and all that…well, hell, so do I! And I stay fit, sexy, and full of zeal for my husband.

Upon first reading this blog I was upset by your comments just as much as Kayla was, however as I kept reading I saw glimpses of me in the posts. I know that I blame my partner for impregnanting me twice and not taking the precautions I requested at the time, so now with five children I barely let him near me, and expect him to provide for me and my three children from my previous relationship in the way that I had become accustomed when I was working full time and a sole parent.

He constantly complains about the costs of living and I do not listen to his complaints because of my anger towards him and just comment that it is what life costs he moved out of home at 40 to live with us when I fell pregnant because he believes it was the right thing to do.

My youngest is 7 months and our son 2 years I did take a contract and return to work when our son was five months however it was too stressful for the household.

I have also had some recent bad experiences using a child care centre. Reading your posts has started me thinking about the deeper issues to my problems with the child care centre, my desires to stay at home until my younger two start school and my recent change in study direction.

I am currently on maternity leave and expected back at work in Jan , therefore I have not found your blog too late. The first step for me is to seek out a family day care provider I am happy with, then seek out a way to come to terms with the additional children I now have.

My job bores me, but after reading your blog I see how I need to grow up, go back to work and study at night finishing the degree slowly, so that I can contribute to supporting my three children from my previous relationship, and be completely responsible for my own life.

For the past two years I now see how much I have spiralled out of control, I used to be like Dr Mom, strong in my convictions to work, but now I see how I am lost in the anger and the victim status I have created for myself.

Thank you for your blog and your straight talking. Hopefully he shares in everything else concerning your children, house chores, etc…. Family is serious and difficult and a team effort. It assures me that there are mature mates out there. I just finished my MS, and started my doctoral program this fall.

I guess if I love my kids I should quit school. All I can say is when did you do a psych evaluation of my wife. I have been dealing with this issue for over a year now and my wife is being totally unfair about it. We are going broke and getting further in debt and bankruptcy is right around the corner. Last week my wife was offered a good job. The same job she used to have, that had been held over my head since she left that job when I was offered a higher paying job in another state.

When we moved I said she could stay at home with our 3 yr old and adjust for 6 months. Plus she was going to get certified and all that. I hate the thought of bankruptcy because I am a professional with an MBA and a career. This reminds me of a quote I once read: The thing that really kills me about the stay-at-home wives of my friends is that.

Women who work are more likely to get a divorce. They are less likely to put up with mistreatment and abuse from their husbands. If your wife works she may have more confidence in herself but she may not have as much confidence and energy for you. Do you have statistics on this? What intrigues me, though, about this suggestion you make, is how it played out in my case, anyway , the exact opposite. Maybe you can shed some light on this.

To wit, I worked full time. I supported my ex because she wanted to take the summer off, ostensibly to finish up her final project for graduate school. At least that is what she told me. She barely touched it the entire summer. Yet, she became increasingly more abusive to me: I sank into despair, lost my functionality as a human, and gradually became a hollow shell of a human.

I came dangerously close to suicide. There appear to be inferences made which I am not sure how there were drawn once again without reviewing the study design and detail.

Certainly not for the right to remain unemployed. To suggest that a woman standing up for herself is a loss to the marriage and husband screams volumes regarding what you consider ethical behavior of a woman and or wife. This is a joke. I have a 1 year old and another on the way. I was working from home for a while making just under six figures before the layoff but that was fairly boring too considering there was little social interaction.

I think that this article is a horrible fiction. Should I stay home with my children I will make sacrifices that are so difficult to make and to call me infantile or willingly dependent is a joke. Some women stay home because it is best for their kids. Also, life itself is a job. Dealing with maintenance people, plumbers, shopping for food, taking care of kids doctors appointments, being present at the school through pta and other volunteer opportunities are all excellent ways to contribute to a family.

Who hurt you so badly that you are this twisted? It adds a lot to rational discourse. Arial, if you go back to work, maybe your critical thinking skill will improve. This writer wrote very clearly that the case example was a woman who refused to go to work after the children were school age. I cannot express how theraputic your site has been for me. It is so helpful knowing that not only are there so many others in my situation but also that there is someone who clearly knows what we have lived through.

I have found that the events I have endured are near impossible for people looking in to believe. If you can think of something that would ruin a marriage I have lived it. I lived with a master manipulator who controlled me with threats of taking my kids knowing the courts would always side with her claims and victim scenarios.

I was paralized with the fear of divorcing and leaving my children in an abusive situation with a woman who at a minimum would destroy them psychologically and at worst could end their lives.

I was not willing to take the chance in our slanted courts who always favor the mother especially if the dad is a Servicemember. I decided to stay no matter the cost to me. I had to save my kids.

No one believed how bad it was and in our cirlces she was better than the perfect mom, professional, and wife. She was flawless on the outside. To those closest me and kids she was Evil incarnate.

Long story short, once bitten twice shy I began taping audio of phone conversations of the rage, drunkeness,etc.. It was a repeat performance of the earlier incident that she was able to remove my children with. The difference this time was the tape. Not knowing the incident was recorded the night culminated with her being arrested for domestic assault.

Upon bail she filed a DVP against me with claims of physical abuse of her and the children just like she had done previously. It had worked flawlessly once surely it would this time as well. She even brought pictures of injuries to court to prove I assaulted her injuries she caused by falling drunk on a gravel road. Although the judge ruled she caused her own injuries did she hold her liable for the false allegation of abuse?

She then filed for emergency custody of the children she had assaulted. I produced the tape. I got sole temp custody of the children. The children, one of whom ran away that evening seeking help came out with everything they had endured to 3rd party court appointed investigators. It has been 8 months now and she has been allowed to see the children 1 hour a week. Guardian ad Litem investigated and has recommended no unsupervised visits until majority age.

Childrens counselor agrees as does DHS. Psychological evaluations diagnosed her axis 1 alcohol abuse. So you think kids and I would be safe at this point. The Forensic pscychologist report although diagnosing her with BPD threw a wrench at me. So now I have become the target. He never once mentioned the affect her disorder had on us.

In fact he exonerated her by giving her wiggle room out of responsibility for her actions. Give a Borderline any way to blame or shuck responsibility and they will maximize it. The shrink really screwed this up and obviously is not schooled on thet true aspects of this illness. I was dinged for being paranoid. I fully admit it. Not only are military pilots trained that way but I lived with a BPD for 15 years and had no idea what I was up against.

It was predictable unpredicatablility. I always knew something bad was coming I just never knew what or when. Hypervigilance is an understatement. I was paralized in fear. I could not stay in it and remain sane and I could not get out leaving my children to fend for themselves. Imagine calling from Iraq to find your wife driving home drunk with your small children in the car!!

My attorney this past week withdrew under pressure. I warned her early on that she had never been up against a Bordeline of this magnitude. She did not believe me. I am now broke 3 years from retirement and had to hire a very expensive yet skilled attorney not familiar with BPD I will eventually go public hopefully with these tapes I have.

They are a clear representaion of Borderline pscyhosis. Remarkably even with the tapes responsibility is projected. I remain in a battle of epic proportions to save my kids even with mountains of solid evidence and reports. To which my answer always is. I taped because no one believed me or even had the capacity to.

As evidence, even with the tapes I am not believed and she still comes out as the victim. Look at what I am having to go through to free myself and the kids despite all evidence.

With borderlines tapes are your only hope. Otherwise what they do is impossible to relay. I would love any advice and would love to hook you up with my new lawyer. I feel so sorry for you. It sounds like the people assessing your crazy wife are more crazy than her to even let her near her children ever again!! Dont give up and hope these crackpot professionals finally see the truth for you. Lots of people must be in your shoes, women can be total lying bitches and dangerous aswell. I think the way this works is that the local, state and federal governments do not want to have to use tax dollars to support the kids or the ex-wives so they create a situation in which it is cheaper for the man to keep the family together, no matter what.

It is a lifelong trajectory in which a woman will do anything so long as she can justify in her mind that some man was responsible for it. The majority of men have no idea of just how bad many women are, if they did know, few men would ever roll the dice and get married. I know women too well to ever marry one. The bitter irony is, my mother and sisters have carried out and perpetrated a lot of the hateful, undermining, belittling and controlling behaviors most men experience from their girlfriends and wives.

My moods were actually being monitored and kept in check! They took advantage of the fact that they had proximity to me, by reason of the fact that we are of the same family, to make my life hell! Coldly, calculatedly, underhandedly, covertly, but also abruptly and in your face.

Each one had her own approach towards bringing me down, trying to destroy my work life, reputation, peace of mind and tranquilty. One of them even went so far as to repeatedly state that she was trying to drive me to suicide. They are all unhappy in their own lives, but what in the hell does that have to do with me?!!! At no time did she tell the judge that every word of her complaint was false.

She tried playing the virtuous victim. Not only could the judges see right through her but, interestingly enough, every single woman in the court rclearly ecognized the game she was trying to run on me. Which tells you how commonly known these tactics are among women.

An interesting study that claims most working women are actually less happy then they were 30 years ago. You know why Women are less happy? Ever see a woman marry a nice man and destroy him? My wife is incredibly capable of working- can make nearly as much money as I do shes an R. I take offense to the notion that I, as a woman, must be some insatiable harpy, lol. I have three kids, and I work and have worked since day one, in some capacity. I work for an indie publisher, which thankfully gives me the option of telecommuting, and I freelance as much as I can.

My husband is constantly trying to get me to stop working and stay home. My point is that not every working woman is unhappy. I love what I do and I as much as I love my kids, and treasure the time I get to spend with them due to my flexible job, I also look forward to the day they are both in school full time and I can go back to the office everyday.

I have short and sweet advice for most of you guys. It wont make an ounce of difference if a women works or doesnt work if she is mental or does not love you anymore. Its not like women who do not work have the majority on psycho. The truth is your choice in a mate was probably just a poor choice for you.

You need a working women and thats fine,and her trying to make you take care of her when you dont want to is wrong! Once this ideal has been ingrained on either side its hard to reverse.

But that goes for men and women!! Since you seem to have taken the liberty to dispense some free advice, allow me to return the favor:. They say one thing I want to work….. You state the obvious when saying that people should figure this stuff out before marriage. Of course they should and bad decisions are made all the time by those who do not want to see the light but that is a topic for another website.

There are plenty of women out there who want to sink their hooks into a man and not work. Frankly, I have trouble respecting a women who does not want to work and be independent. If you have a SAHM and a husband who works, the courts fail to consider that the husband also contributed to housework and raising the childrens.

The court assumes by rewarding the SAHM half that the husband worked, came home, and did nothing. Since when can it be assumed that the husband just works and comes home, offering nothing to child-rearing once he is home?

Maybe the working spouse should get two thirds of the assets for working and contributing to the household upon the divorce while the SAHM gets one-third for staying at home. I am a big fan of feminism…. I wish my husband was as supportive of my career as you seem to be. A warning to you: My first piece of advice would be to prep for a divorce quietly, secure your assets, then cut her off and see what happens. My second piece advice would be to realize that the loss of portfolio assets, etc.

You can rebuild, and frankly, these women require so much overhead and create so much stress that you will find out again how little you need to live happily! Your children are old enough to be only minimally affected by any fallout. My third piece of advice: You are not crazy! What your wife expects and demands is unfair, spoiled, childish, and classic NPD behavior.

There are plenty of hard working, appreciative women out there, you just have to find one. Hi 52 and tired, Please leave this horrible woman she is a drain on you as a normal person and doesnt love you. Anyone who loved you properly would want your happiness she is only bothered about her own. Selfish and childish is what that truth is about her.

It doesnt take phsycolologist to work that one out. Dependent and childish behaviour. I felt disturbed enough about the topic to find my way here. I am not going to kill myself trying to take care of all this by myself.

I feel like in my case that this is a attempt for my wife to become more lazy and self centered. Not to offend anyone but I thought that this was a sight for men to express thereselves about this matter. I hear my fiance point of view on this matter enough and am frankly not intrested I tried to listen with a open mind but noe I feel like this whole ordeal is one big mistake I can do well by myself.

I can be happy by myself. I am not going to encourage the lazy wife sex. She likes lobster and Gucci Louis Vouton. I am about to call the wedding off and save my money for for something that makes sense.

I think this mind set has been pre-decided. To void divorce and debt and unhappiness I am going to cut it off before it starts. I was laid off from a well paying marketing job in , my wife is a teacher…makes a good salary. When I was laid off in was my youngest son was diagnosed with autism at 2 yrs.

I also have another son who is presently 11 years old. Since I was laid off from a highly competitive industry I chose to switch careers and become a teacher. While my wife worked, I went to school days, nights, studied weekends was the primary caregiver for both my children, including but not limited to therapies for our autistic son, maintained the household, cleaning, inside and out,laundry, car maintenance. That was my job. Knowing my wife wished she were home with our sons I tried to make it as easy as possible for her.

Helped her get out the door in the morning, helped her with reports. I wanted to provide my sons, especially our autistic son with an emotional foundation that he would carry with him for the rest of his life.

This is my gift to him which you cannot put a price on. I will go to my grave knowing I did the best I did for my sons. What did a get from my wife.. I might add…in doing so I received my teaching certification, presently working at a Hilton Hotel full time for the past two years to help with the bills.

I am stressed about money, feeling I am spinning my wheels. I am pretty bored most of the time, doing little but working, then sitting around at home — I drink more, I guess to escape, to go a little numb. I want to go do things, but feel guilty doing them on my own.

Most of my decisions are based on what I think my wife wants me to do. Often, these are in conflict with what I want to do… so I end up doing nothing. My wife has basically retired at age She has worked less than 4 years in our marriage, while I have worked over 22 so far, often having multiple jobs at one time.

She makes me feel cheap, and incompetent in my earning ability.

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